eHarmony, say it ain't so.

In response to Cams post, it sounds like eHarmony is cannibalizing it's own brand. You can trust us but... if you don't we'll happily take 4 more bucks out of your pocket. What a shame. At least with the other sites you know what you are getting into; beware of the strange and mysterious. Online dating should be reclassified as legalized voyeurism. How could anyone ever feel "safe" meeting someone they have only interacted with via e-mail. I checked out the crimshield link you posted. Cool concept, one whose time has come.

Are Online Daters Honest In their Profiles?

Even when I was really excited about one of my matches on eHarmony... I was always a little nervous. I always wished I could find out more about them, but was afraid to come out and ask for a background check on them. I had heard the horror stories and just wanted to play it safe. I was always so apprehensive to actually meet in person.

I was so excited to learn of a background check product that allows you to have the check performed on yourself and then you can allow those you choose to verify your clean history online for free. I joined myclearcheck.com the day I heard about it. It is well worth $50 dollars to give others the peace of mind that I have always wanted. Now I ask all of my matches if they are on myclearcheck.com before taking the relationship any further.